A tumbleblog made to promote knowledge, and awareness on all matters that are sexual. You will find tips, tricks, how-tos and advice on these pages. We believe that sex should be talked about openly, and freely. This is a body positive, and LGBTQIA positive zone. No question is too outrageous, or taboo. Our ask box is always open, and always has anonymous enabled. If you want even more privacy please feel free to email us at: sexguidetumblr@gmail.com

We are not licensed professionals; just students with a passion for open communication, and informing the masses about sex. We are here to give you the information you need to make healthy, and sexually fulfilling choices.

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Jan 29, 2012
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SEXY FACTOID #1

Have you ever wondered the origin of the word “FUCK”?

One of the leading theory’s about the origin states that in ancient Rome Kings used to pick random people whom they deemed attractive from crowds, and ask them to have sex in public forums. The word “Fuck” is actually an acronym for “Fornicating Under the Consent of the King”. 


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Dec 18, 2011
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I just got signed up for spring semester at my college. I am taking a human sexuality class, as well as a class that will go over the psychology of romantic and sexual realtionships. I promise to share all of the wonderful things I learn with all you followers. SO EXCITED :3


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Dec 15, 2011
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Anonymous said: I'm a female - 19 yr old - and I was wondering if there are any exercises i can do to make myself looser down there, cause my boyfriend has trouble with ya know, beacuse im too tight! xx

Unfortunately I do not know of any exercises that do such a thing. Are you two using lube? It can make a world of difference! If you already using it: Try a different brand.. sometimes that is all you need. Maybe you could have him finger you, and slowly size up to toys, and eventually his penis? Some bodies just take a bit longer than others to warm up. Be patient, and it will happen! I hope thay helps. Have fun, and stay safe :)


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Nov 25, 2011
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Anonymous said: is it normal for a girl to masturbate to gay/lesbian porn?

Yes. It is completely normal, and healthy to enjoy gay, and lesbian porn. I am huge advocate for gay and lesbian porn watching no matter what team you play on. Just because you enjoy watching it does not mean that you want it done to you, or that you desire to be in that situation. Even if you do find yourself wishing to be in a sexual situation like that, it is healthy, and normal :)


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Nov 25, 2011
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COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT #1: FISTING 101 feat. Jessica Luxury & Majestic Legay

Hello, beautiful followers! I decided that I wanted to start featuring videos made by other sex talkers (people who talk about sex? whatever. it works. just go with it) I will stilll be making videos, but I thought it would be more interesting for you all to have different perspectives on things. I really wanted to start this of with a bang, so it is my pleasure to introduce to you all Jessica Luxury (tangledupinlace.tumblr.com), and Majestic Legay (innerfatgirl.tumblr.com). I was actually planning on doing my next video on fisting, but I am really glad they beat me to it. This is a really really really good how-to! 

*Good news to all of you that really like these two! Jessica told me that she, and Majestic are going to be making more videos. Woohoo!*

Have fun and be safe :)


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Nov 25, 2011
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Anonymous said: My boyfriend won't go down on me and won't do me doggy style. I give him oral all the time, and I love doing it for him, but I wish he'd return the favor sometimes. He's done it twice and doesn't seem to enjoy it, but... still. I'm scared to ask because I know he doesn't like it. Also, we tried it doggy style, and he kept slipping out, so we switched to having me on top. I was really enjoying it, though. I wanna do it again and I've asked, but he was like "nahhh...". Grrr what do I do!

Has he said that he doesn’t like going down on you? It is very easy to assume things sometimes, especially in the bedroom. I am a firm believer that the key to a healthy (and enjoyable!) sex life is open communication. My friend actually had the same problem with getting oral from their significant other. Turns out the other person did like giving oral, they just didn’t think that my friend liked receiving oral. All of this could have been avoided by some talking. 

Good for you for speaking up :) Does he know how much you enjoy doggy style? Maybe you could ask him why he doesn’t want to do it again? Who knows… perhaps he feels insecure about “slipping out”? Many guys feel incredibly uncomfortable about slipping out. They seem to think that it means they have a penis that is too small, or that they are not getting hard enough. NOT THE CASE. It often is just that they are going at it from the wrong angle.

It is very easy to stop thinking about speed, and positioning during sex. Sometimes you have to play around a little bit to find the right position, and speed. If he ever does change his mind, some ways that you can limit the slipping out are: lowering your backside a few inches, and have him come from a higher angle or laying with your stomach flat on the ground, then have him get between your legs. Find what works for you both. Let me know if this helped at all.

 Have fun, and be safe :)


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Nov 9, 2011
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Anonymous said: re: female ejaculation. I think I'm experiencing female ejaculation when I masturbate, but I'm confused because: a) I'm usually not stimulating my g-spot or anywhere near the inside of my vagina and b) it doesn't "squirt" out (it's more of a strong secretion, if that makes sense). I'm 97% sure it's ejaculate and not urine based on color and smell, but I'm still baffled. I'm a virgin, but I plan on having sex within the coming months and I don't want to be self conscious about this.

People can squirt without direct g-spot stimulation. I know of many people who can squirt with just clitoral stimulation.  It certainly does happen. As for the way it comes out, It does vary. Most people think that squirting has to be this huge explosion, but for most people it really isn’t like that. For some people it really is a theatrical experience, but most people I know of say “gushes out” and then there are even people who didn’t realized anything happened until they saw the wet spot on the bed.

It is possible to be a “squirter”, and not ejaculate during sex. Even if you do orgasm. I would sit down with your partner, and have talk about it though if it truly makes you that uncomfortable. It is a completely natural thing, and is more common than you would believe. 

Have fun, and be safe :)


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Nov 9, 2011
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I’M BAAACCCKK!

I am so sorry for neglecting you all for so long. Thank you all for waiting around for 5 months! All is well now, but I have had a pretty turbulent last few months. I will be responding to all your messages, and I should be making a new video this week. 

Thank you for sticking around <3


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May 18, 2011
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What do you want to know?

If we don’t know it off the top of our heads, we will research till our little noggins are full, and relay our findings to you. There are no stupid questions, and so you all know, anonymous is always on.

So tell us… what kind of things are you all interested in hearing about? 


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May 18, 2011
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Guide #1: Squirting // Female Ejaculation

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